At the end of November we were finally able to
leave site and head back into society for two weeks of in-service training. You
better believe that all I wanted to do was take about a million showers and eat
some food that I didn’t have to cook on my two burner hot plate. While that did
happen, I also had to attend about eight hours of training each day, which was
not all that exciting at times. A large part of the training was focused toward
our school and community counterparts that were to accompany us for specific
parts of the training sessions. The first few days were to be spent with our
principals, then a few days with a teacher, then a few days with our HIV/AIDS
education counterpart, and finally a few days with just our fellow volunteers.
Of course all of my counterparts
had been informed weeks in advance about the dates and times that they needed
to be at the different venues, but here it is apparently socially acceptable to
have a change of plans the day before a prepaid event. Like my Thanksgiving
experience, my principal decided the day before we were to leave for the
principal’s workshop that he “just didn’t want to go”. Not only was I now out
of a ride to the hotel that was two hours away, but the whole point of the
workshop was to have the volunteers and the principals together to discuss
issues the volunteers were having, and to sit down and plan the first term of
school. However, that obviously wasn’t high on my principal’s priority list, so
he had made arrangements earlier in the week to send the head of the department
instead. Of course no one could tell me this until the day before, so I spent
most of the time I was supposed to be packing on the phone with Peace Corps
staff trying to figure out how to change reservations. To say I was pissed
would be a huge understatement!
My mood drastically increased when
we finally made it to the hotel the next day and I realized we were basically
staying on the beach in the nicest three bedroom flats that I had ever seen,
and we were right next to a real coffee shop. Score!!! Three vanilla lattes
later, I was prepared to hang out with people who spoke fluent English, and who
understood the struggles of transitioning to a village life. The stories that
first night were epic. In some villages people were being stabbed, other
schools had teachers that would leave in the middle of the day and never come
back. Basically we decided that nothing in South Africa made any sense, and all
of us were dealing with the same crap in a different village. Surprisingly this
made me feel a lot better, and a lot less alone. However, I did learn that I
was the only one at the workshop who didn’t have their principal, which made me
feel a little awkward. Fortunately we all spent as little time with our
supervisors as possible, so that worked in my favor.
After day one it became very apparent
that our counterparts were not used to nine hour work days. We were usually in
sessions starting at 8am and went until 3pm or 4pm with an hour break for
lunch. There were also two 30 minute tea breaks throughout the day, so compared
to an American work schedule it wasn’t that bad. However, you could slowly see
the teachers start to fall asleep around 10am. Once the majority of the
counterparts were asleep it was lunch time, and after lunch many of them seemed
to disappear altogether. It was crazy. You could tell that many of them saw
this as an opportunity to go to a nice hotel for a few days and enjoy some free
food and place to stay. Unfortunately this made both the volunteers and the
session leaders extremely angry, but what are you going to do?
For the most part the sessions were
about different projects that we can do in our villages. We had sessions on
Grassroot Soccer that combines soccer skills with HIV education, which I am
planning on doing in my village. We also had sessions that pertained to the
areas that we will be teaching in less than a month. Since I am focusing on
teaching math I was able to attend sessions on things like how to teach
fractions (something that kids here really struggle with), how to start
mathletes, and how to use soccer (Africa’s favorite sport) to teach basic math
skills. Those sessions were all very helpful and a valuable use of our time. Then
there were the sessions on harassment and corporal punishment. These sessions
were extremely stressful to sit through with our counterparts. For the most
part they would just laugh at us when we talked about why sexual harassment and
corporal punishment bothered us. When we discussed different ways to discipline
kids the teachers would just shake their heads and act like they weren’t listening.
When the female volunteers, including myself, talked about the issues we are
having with sexual harassment even in our schools counterparts would make
comments about how we just needed to deal with it, and that there was nothing
they could do to help us. These sessions seemed to just make everyone mad and
extremely annoyed, which seemed to make for good conversation once the volunteers
were alone without the counterparts.
Overall it was just nice to be able
to have some time with Americans, and to complain to people that could really
understand what we are going through in our villages and school. To be honest
we spent most of the time bitching about things that we have no control over,
but that make our service harder. After three months at site it was very therapeutic
to have a two week bitch fest!
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